聊天的时候要注意,信息点只是一个入口,要想走的远,要看你的分析,选择什么样的路走,让你能奇招制胜。
跟喜欢的人聊天就像谈恋爱一样的感觉,这是一项互动娱乐,要给对方很好的feeling,自己也要好好的show一show。
温丰说道:“佳好像要什么都会一样,老问我这会吗?那会吗?那么我怎么回答呢?我只能说这个现在还不大会,那个你说了我就会了,不过总体上我不会的还是很想提高这样东西,所以事情还是一点点,以后会提高的。”
一般每日聊得话题,包括各自的生活方面的事情,工作方面的事情,各自的业余方面的生活,还有新闻等等。如果只有一方内容的话,能少就少,除非就是能让你有很好表演机会的,那可以加点想象空间,好好表演一番。真正让双方feeling很好的,应该是有共同可以讨论的话题,双方都能很好的投入进去的,要尽量多的找这样的话题聊。
MBA英语老师让班里每一位同学都要做一个PPT演讲,这周要轮到温丰了,温丰说道:“十三号的英语演讲,我觉得只要简单,熟练就好,不用太复杂,太完美,这不是比赛,就当成是一场的游戏。所以只要用简单的方法,熟练通过就可以了。”
不过温丰还是很重视,提前两周就开始准备了,白天在客户现场调试,晚上在酒店花时间准备PPT。首先温丰在网上找一个背景图案的PPT,温丰说道:“看了几个PPT,就这个清新版的月亮挺有意境,画面感很好,另外我自己加一点动画效果更好了。”
第二个是选主题,温丰思考了一下,然后开始写台词。写的差不多的时候,自己演练了一遍,说道:“感觉还是在读,我声音不好听,但是可以放情感在声音里。另外,要能知道何时快,何时慢,何时停顿。”
要演讲的这天到了,老师示意谁先来,温丰第一个举手。
旁边同学问:“为什么你第一个举手?”温丰低声回答说:“第一个讲没压力。”
在同学们的鼓舞掌声中,温丰来到台前,一边放着PPT,一边开始讲了。
Hi, everybody!
I am zhang feng from Inspirenergy \u0027s team.
It’s a cold day today, but I will inspire energy to you all.
Now let’s begin. My topic is Imagination for 2009.
Firstly let’s review the year of 2008. There were too many things happened around in this year, such as snow disaster, earthquake disaster, flood disaster. Three disasters, with huge loss, especially Sichuan earthquake, which has made our country a huge loss materially and financially,but at the same time it’s also the most united time currently in the country.
The second slide is entertainment industry, the most famous of which was chenguanxi dirty photos,these photos shocked our eyes, but also let us know the special industry, that is “being famous fast, and being notorious fast”.
The third slide is Beijing Olympic, Congratulations to our country, we had won 51 pieces golden medals. I like sports, and watched a lot of games, so great highlights.
The last slide in 2008 is economy crisis and stock disaster. It’s also miserable. Can I ask those who have stocks please show your hands? Oh, that’s good, you are all lucky. I have stocks, but I am lucky too, because little money, little lose.
For myself, I think I hadn’t so many things in 2008, but I had 2 or 3 important things I would share with you. The first one was I passed MBA exam, and luckily became a Tongji student, knowing so many good guys.
The second one was that I got a new job in April this year. It’s my new job, new opportunity, and also a new life.
The third one is also very important but I haven’t pleted yet, because it’s still 2 weeks left this year.
And now I am going to talk imagination for 2009.
The first is I hope there is no disaster, no harm. There were too many natural disasters in 2008 not just in China. If put 100 years natural disasters into 2008, I think it’s acceptable, that means it’s life security in the following 100 years. Though I hope this, I also hope related experts to improve forecast technology, to improve forecast accurate. Because I think earlier forecast, less lose. Meanwhile, we should be much more united to get through the hard time together when disaster happen.
Let’s see the second, no panic in economic crisis, as last year American subprime lending crisis happened, especially from September this year, American economy, European, and even China suffered big lose. But it’s also a good opportunity for rethink, readjust, then stand up for better improvement.
As for stock market, money es and goes fast, it’s a game. You know the game rule well, then you can control yourself freely, otherwise you will be passive, sometimes even dangerous, just like recently stock market.